Divorce can follow many paths. Mediation is simply one of them, just like collaborative divorce or traditional litigation. No matter which route you take, the issues remain the same: parenting, finances, support, and property division. The difference lies in how you reach a resolution. ​Mediation is a private meeting where people in conflict ("the parties") meet with a neutral third person ("the mediator") to resolve their issues and reach voluntary agreements. One or both parties may be represented by an attorney, but an attorney is not required for mediation. Mediation is guided by two core principles: confidentiality and voluntariness. It is a confidential process, so what’s said in mediation stays in mediation. This allows for candid discussion without fear that statements will be used later in court. The discussions, notes, and documents are protected by law. Likewise, Mediators cannot be forced to testify or produce records about what occurred. No one outside the process may participate unless everyone agrees in advance.  Mediation is also a voluntary, choice-driven process. You decide whether to settle and on what terms. No one can force you to agree to anything. The Mediator doesn't take sides or make decisions. You keep the decision-making power. You decide what to agree on, what to set aside, and what needs more thought. Any agreements reached are written down, signed, and can become legally binding. Mediation is effective in family law because it creates space for clarity, closure, and forward motion, not blame or punishment. It’s about finding stability for your family, peace of mind for yourself, and a plan you can live with.